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A Bridge Over Troubled Water

In God‘s economy, you can’t out give God.

Think about that statement.  Process it.  To me, it means that if you give your time and energy and talents to God, He will provide for you in unexpected ways.  When things are tough and you feel you have nothing else to offer, know and trust that God will never give you more than you can handle, and He wants you to do your best to offer yourself up to serve the Lord in whatever ways and with whatever gifts He has blessed you with.

Part of Psalm 34 reinforces this concept.  ”The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their cry; the face of the Lord is against those who do evil, to cut off the memory of them from the earth.  The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles.  The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.  A righteous man may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all….The Lord redeems his servants; no one will be condemned who takes refuge in him” (Psalm 34: 15-22).

Life is not easy for most people.  Even the people we may deem as “perfect” in our minds have there own set of problems and issues.  You never know what is going through the hearts and minds of people under another roof.  It is not our job to judge others or say that they are not worthy of our time and talents.  God has blessed us all with some ability, even it’s just the blessing of being a comforting shoulder to those grieving.  Offer yourself up selflessly to help others in need whenever and wherever you can.  Do not expect anything in return.  Ever.  If you give selflessly without any want of recourse, then God will bless your unselfish heart in unexpected ways.  It may not be in ways that we want, but always in ways that we need.

There have been times in my life (and I’m currently in a difficult stage) that I thought that there was no way out of the situation that I was in.  With the economy the way it is, my family is struggling financially.  I lost my job in late 2010 and due to my health at the time and the lack of jobs in our area, I was not (and still not) able to find something sustainable to do.  My husband took a leap of faith and left his dead-end job soon after to do student teaching for a semester so that he could become a teacher (hopefully the following fall).  We prayed that if we kept a tight budget and subsided on savings and student loans that he would find a position that fall and we could get back on track financially and as a family.

With the economy the way it is, he was not able to find a job.  He has been substitute teaching since last fall and though the money is pitiful, it is something coming into our household and we are thankful.  We are praying that God will find it in his will to provide my husband with a teaching position or lead us down another path this year.  I’m still looking for work and now with two children, I’m hoping God will lead me to what I am supposed to do with my life as well.

The reason I’m telling you all of this is because even though our income has been tight and at times non-existent, we have survived so far.  God has always – and at times we have no idea how it happens – provided us with a way to pay for our basic necessities and bills.  We have used student loans to get by as well (we are both still in school part-time), but that is only a small portion of it.  With odd jobs and substitute teaching, and random influxes of income, we are able to make it month to month.  There are times that the money coming in and the money that is supposed to go out doesn’t seem to match, but somehow we are able to get enough together to do so.  By God’s grace we have been blessed.

My husband and I are actively trying to find a way out of our situation, but we know that God has us here for a reason and when He is ready, He will provide us with an answer to our prayers.  Nothing can be done without Him.  While we are waiting, we are using this time to improve our relationships and be role model’s to our children.  I never thought we would be able to spend so much time together or with our children at this young age and for that I am grateful.  I have used my time and talents volunteering in the community as well and lending an ear to those in need.  I try to keep an open mind and heart so when I feel I am needed, I try to be there to offer my services to others.

I know one day soon this trial will end and I am sure another will rise in the future.  But God is always holding our hand during troubling times and this is no exception.  Always give openly and you will be blessed.  Remember the bible verse from earlier….”[a] righteous man may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all” (Psalm 34:19).

Looking back at difficult situations in your life that you have overcome, did God always provide you with a way to rise above your situation, even if it was in an unexpected way?

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New Beginnings with Lent

Since today is Ash Wednesday which marks the beginning of the Lent season, I’ve been thinking a lot of what I wanted to do to make the most out of the time between now and Easter.  There are several things that I think I will do/not do to commemorate and celebrate the season.  My faith is hanging on by strings.  Of course, I believe in God and believe He is the answer.  But that is about the extent of my knowledge.  I did not grow up in Church and have never developed a strong relationship with my religion.  I want to raise my children differently than my parents raised me, so part of my daily Lent ritual will be to do a daily devotional in order to explore and understand my faith.  I hope by doing so I will create a deeper spiritual connection that will help my faith become strong and unbreakable and create a habit that will continue for a lifetime – long after Lent is over.  I want my children to be able to look to me for spiritual guidance and inspiration.

Here are a couple of Bible verses on faith that I hope will inspire you during this season:

“Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” – Hebrews 11:1

“Make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-contol, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love.  For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” – 2 Peter 1:5-8

So I’m going to make a list of my goals during Lent season.  Things I’m going to add to my daily ritual at least until Easter and things I’m going to give up.  It may seem excessive, but I believe I need a strong change in my life and Lent provides the perfect opportunity and inspiration to achieve these goals.

First, I’m going to complete a daily devotional along with a short bible reading.  I may or may not post my thoughts in my blog, but from time to time, I’m sure some postings on my faith journey will make there way to my blog.

Second, as part of my faith journey with my children, I’m reading 2 chapters a night of my daughter’s Children’s Bible to her.  It’s an over-simplified text – perfect for a 3 year old – and I will have finished reading it to her by Easter.

Third, I’m going to give up all Cow’s Milk products – so most milk, cheese and yogurt products.  I believe my daughter (Addison) whom I’m breastfeeding may be allergic, so this provides a double-pronged reason for me to give this up.   I’m so ingrained in eating or drinking something of the cow’s milk variety so this is going to be very tough.

Fourth, I’m going to the doctor today.  Hopefully, I will be released to take up physical activity again (it’s been 6 weeks since my c-section – which also means that Addison is 6 weeks old today!).  If I am released, then I will be doing some type of physical activity each day throughout Lent.  Possible walking (hopefully jogging eventually), yoga, workout videos, etc.

Fifth, to complete a blog post every day.  It can be on any subject.  But I want to write and write I shall.

Sixth, to complete a craft project every day.  It can be for myself or something with my daughter’s.  Sometimes it will be something as simple as coloring.  Other times, it’ll be something more intensive. I may not post these projects every day, but I will post summaries weekly at the very least.

And seventh, make an effort to call or go see someone, either family or friends, that I don’t see often.  I need to make an effort to see my grandparents more often.  I also need to make an effort to call my friends and keep up with them.  Relationships are important and I don’t want mine to fall apart.

So, some of these read like resolutions, and to me that is okay.  This season is about making my relationship with God stronger and creating a deeper faith connection.  All of these things are necessary for me to accomplish that for a spiritual connection that reaches my mind, body and soul.

If you decide to participate in Lent, what are your goals?  Or what are you going to give up?

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