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Adoption?

I have some exciting news.  Ever since I was a little kid, when faced with thoughts of the future and kids, I always said that I would like to have 3 children: 2 biological and 1 adopted.  My husband never really shared this passion and so I just assumed this was one wish that would never come to fruition.  Now that we have 2 daughters of our own, we are not looking to have another child anytime soon.  If we do decide to have another child it’ll be at least 5 years away after our lives get a little more orderly and together.  But tonight, he told me that he had been thinking that adopting a child would be something he would be interested in doing in the next 5 to 10 years.  My heart swelled up with delight.

This doesn’t mean it will happen, but to know that his heart and mind are finally open and welcoming the idea makes me unbelievably happy.  Hopefully, if this is part of our destined path it will come to be, and I’m hoping one day, we will be blessed with having such an opportunity.

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New Beginnings with Lent

Since today is Ash Wednesday which marks the beginning of the Lent season, I’ve been thinking a lot of what I wanted to do to make the most out of the time between now and Easter.  There are several things that I think I will do/not do to commemorate and celebrate the season.  My faith is hanging on by strings.  Of course, I believe in God and believe He is the answer.  But that is about the extent of my knowledge.  I did not grow up in Church and have never developed a strong relationship with my religion.  I want to raise my children differently than my parents raised me, so part of my daily Lent ritual will be to do a daily devotional in order to explore and understand my faith.  I hope by doing so I will create a deeper spiritual connection that will help my faith become strong and unbreakable and create a habit that will continue for a lifetime – long after Lent is over.  I want my children to be able to look to me for spiritual guidance and inspiration.

Here are a couple of Bible verses on faith that I hope will inspire you during this season:

“Faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” – Hebrews 11:1

“Make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-contol, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love.  For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.” – 2 Peter 1:5-8

So I’m going to make a list of my goals during Lent season.  Things I’m going to add to my daily ritual at least until Easter and things I’m going to give up.  It may seem excessive, but I believe I need a strong change in my life and Lent provides the perfect opportunity and inspiration to achieve these goals.

First, I’m going to complete a daily devotional along with a short bible reading.  I may or may not post my thoughts in my blog, but from time to time, I’m sure some postings on my faith journey will make there way to my blog.

Second, as part of my faith journey with my children, I’m reading 2 chapters a night of my daughter’s Children’s Bible to her.  It’s an over-simplified text – perfect for a 3 year old – and I will have finished reading it to her by Easter.

Third, I’m going to give up all Cow’s Milk products – so most milk, cheese and yogurt products.  I believe my daughter (Addison) whom I’m breastfeeding may be allergic, so this provides a double-pronged reason for me to give this up.   I’m so ingrained in eating or drinking something of the cow’s milk variety so this is going to be very tough.

Fourth, I’m going to the doctor today.  Hopefully, I will be released to take up physical activity again (it’s been 6 weeks since my c-section – which also means that Addison is 6 weeks old today!).  If I am released, then I will be doing some type of physical activity each day throughout Lent.  Possible walking (hopefully jogging eventually), yoga, workout videos, etc.

Fifth, to complete a blog post every day.  It can be on any subject.  But I want to write and write I shall.

Sixth, to complete a craft project every day.  It can be for myself or something with my daughter’s.  Sometimes it will be something as simple as coloring.  Other times, it’ll be something more intensive. I may not post these projects every day, but I will post summaries weekly at the very least.

And seventh, make an effort to call or go see someone, either family or friends, that I don’t see often.  I need to make an effort to see my grandparents more often.  I also need to make an effort to call my friends and keep up with them.  Relationships are important and I don’t want mine to fall apart.

So, some of these read like resolutions, and to me that is okay.  This season is about making my relationship with God stronger and creating a deeper faith connection.  All of these things are necessary for me to accomplish that for a spiritual connection that reaches my mind, body and soul.

If you decide to participate in Lent, what are your goals?  Or what are you going to give up?

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And please bless the chickens….

Tonight at the end our bedtime routine, my daughter said her prayers.  She went through her list of loved ones, friends, teachers, etc. and then she said, “God, most of all, please bless the chickens that I met this morning.  I love them.”

It was so cute and so sweet.  She did meet chickens.  She spent the day with my Mother-In-Law and her next door neighbor has 10 chickens.  So this morning, Peyton got to go pick eggs, which was super fun for her.  I think it would be fun for most any kid.

However, my husband almost ruined her love of her chicken friends by making a sly comment about having them come over for a chicken dinner.  Thank the Lord that Peyton was otherwise occupied and missed this stab at trying to be humorous by my husband.  She hasn’t made the connection between animals and the meat that we eat yet.  Heck, I try not to think about it.  But I think if she did understand that the chickens she met this morning are the same as the chicken we eat at dinner….oy, I think we’d have a vegetarian on our hands.  And I think the world as we knew it would be over.  I’m sure she would want to start a revolt in protest of this.

And I just don’t want to throw that into the mix at age 3.  At some point, I know, I will have to explain this all to her.  But at this point, I think I’ll let the meat we eat for dinner be a mystery, and all the animals she encounters be her friends.  It paints a much happier portrait of the world, don’t you think?

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My Mom’s Birthday

Yesterday was my Mom’s birthday.  She turned 52.  Crazy how time flies.  I wanted to share with ya’ll a bit of how we celebrated.

Here is a picture of my Mom when she was in her early twenties.  Isn’t she beautiful?

My husband, the kids and myself spent the weekend with my parents, which is how we’ve been spending most weekends recently, since Addison was born.    After my daughter Peyton woke up from her nap yesterday afternoon, we went to the store and bought cake mix.  I know, it’s a mix.  But Peyton wanted to make her Nana a birthday cake herself and it was going to be way to complicated to have her make it from scratch.  Plus, we were in my parents old school kitchen – not the most convenient place for me to bake something from scratch.

We bought the new Duncan Hines Triple Chocolate cake mix and the NEW Duncan Hines Vanilla Glaze to use as icing.  It was delicious (btw)!

Anyway, so the cake was made and it was a success.  It looked pretty good for a 3 year old’s creation.  Peyton added sprinkles and birthday candles to the cake.  And btw, the candles were awful.  They were literally lit for less than 20 seconds and already started melting all over the cake.  Oh well, a little wax won’t hurt you.

Okay, so this next part is my favorite part of the whole day.  My Mom got a big laugh out of it.  Well, we all did.  My 3 year old wanted to get her Nana a special birthday present.  While we were at the store she picked out the following: a Winnie the Pooh and Piglet Valentine’s Day balloon and a Cinderella birthday card.  Perfect for her Nana, right?  Well, it was and she loved it.  What Nana doesn’t want to be told that she’s a Princess?  :)

And here is a copy of the princess card Peyton got for her Nana.  I wrote the words, per my 3 year old’s instruction.

Oh, by the way, the Cinderella Princess birthday card?  It sings, “A Dream is a Wish Your Heart Makes“.  :)

What a wonderful day!  It was a simple, relaxed day, surrounded by family. No better way to spend a birthday for a Nana who adores her grandchildren.

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Sweet Little Prayers

Yesterday morning, I was in the kitchen sterilizing bottles.  Addison was laying down on the couch and Peyton was playing in the same room.  I kept checking on them every minute or so since I’ve had some problems with Peyton being a bit rough with Addison at times.

I checked in on them at one point and Peyton had crawled on the couch next to Addison and was talking to her.  I turned the water off in the kitchen so I could listen in on the conversation.

Peyton was “teaching” Addison how to pray.  She told Addison that it was important to pray because God loves us and He wants to hear from us every day.  Then she went through the nightly prayer that I taught her and told Addison “this is how you do it”.  She said, “Dear God, Thank you for giving me another day.  Please bless everyone I know and love.  Please bless Mommy, Daddy and Addison.  Please bless Grandmama and Grandaddy and Great Grandaddy.  Please bless Nana and Papa and Lala.  Please bless Maw Maw and Paw Paw.  Please Bless Grandmama Faye and T.  Please bless and take care of everyone I know and love.  And please bless me, Peyton.  Please take care of me and help me to be a healthy, happy and good girl.  In the name of your Son, Jesus Christ, I pray, Amen.”

I literally had tears in my eyes the prayer was so sweet.  She held her baby sister’s hand and sweetly told her all of the above.  Gave her a kiss when she was done and then went off to play some more.

There are days that I love nothing more than being surrounded by my sweet girls.  Moments like this make everything absolutely worth it.

My sweet girls: Peyton and Addison.  Mommy loves you.  :)

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